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March 10, 2006
Growing Together
Lee says:
u think that since u're at this age and when u find a life partner things will b easier than when if you were much younger
blureye says:
hahahahhahah
blureye says:
for one, i think i'm more equipped to deal with emotions
blureye says:
either mine or my partner's
Lee says:
i think it could b more difficult .coz i've learnt that when u find n live with a partner, there are so many things to get used to n get along
blureye says:
it's like getting married mah
Lee says:
n at an older age, u would hv alot of fixed "ideas" etc
blureye says:
true in a way
blureye says:
but u r also clearer abt what u can compromise and what u cant
Lee says:
which u will stick to quite steadfastly as u've always believed it for years
blureye says:
sometimes i think when u're younger, and less sure abt who u r,
blureye says:
u can become lost in someone else's world
blureye says:
juz keep changing n compromising until u're not yourself anymore
blureye says:
which is really sad
Lee says:
that's true but i think when a relationship settles and matures, then u'll b more secure abt urself, ur partner n the relationship, which can strengthen both pple
blureye says:
precisely
Lee says:
some pple nvr learn not to mould to their partners no matter wat age they r
Lee says:
but they seem pretty happy
blureye says:
i think the best relationship is one which allows both person to grow positively
Lee says:
u think mayb they're already a blank sheet so they'll b happy being anything
blureye says:
it's not about not changing...it's about changing for the better
blureye says:
no la. i dun think anyone is a blank sheet
Lee says:
yah yah .changing for better got lah, if they no ideas abt themselves then they r pretty much blank sheets wat
blureye says:
i like dirty sheets
Lee says:
each time they meet someone they adopt the other's "persona"
blureye says:
ya lo. tat's sad
blureye says:
i dun want to adopt my partner's persona n i wont want him to adopt mine
blureye says:
if he does, i think i immediately sian liao
Lee says:
breakup n the old persona goes back to blank then meet someone new n the new person will write new "persona" for the clueless one
blureye says:
no personality
Lee says:
but his personality is urs wat
Lee says:
if u love urself then bonus lah u think
Lee says:
u think it'll work that way
blureye says:
wat u mean his personality is urs?
Lee says:
if u love urself n he's got ur personality then won't u like it
blureye says:
yucks!
blureye says:
definitely no!
blureye says:
i wont like someone who's like me
blureye says:
n worse still, trying to be like me
Posted by loganw at March 10, 2006 01:30 PM
