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October 01, 2006
A Singaporean In KL
I'm writing this entry from Toon's apartment in Kuala Lumpur. Toon, Seow Wei (Toon's girlfriend) and I just got back from dinner with our friend Richard. We drove all the way to Klang to have seafood at Telok Gong. The food was fantastic. It was nice seeing Richard again since I last met him before I moved back to Singapore about a year and a half ago. Turns out that he's gonna be returning to New Zealand in two months' time.
Toon proudly told me that he got his first invitation to a gay wedding in South Africa. We started talking about gay marriage, civil unions, wedding rituals.
Then we got into this whole conversation about gay saunas in Singapore and Seow Wei started to wonder why there aren't saunas for heterosexuals where people could just meet up for sex. We never got a conclusion. Maybe those places do exist.
Although the food was good and the company was great, what really made my day was a brief 10 minutes MSN chat with YF right before I had to leave for dinner. It was the most open and honest conversation we had since we started seeing each other. That ten minutes drew us a lot closer than all those time we spent before that. It just shows one thing - any interaction between two people, where either one person, or both persons, are inauthentic is a complete waste of time. So for goodness' sake, I need to stop being a pussy and wasting time.
Posted by loganw at October 1, 2006 02:51 PM
